Me Time!

Michael is down for the night, and Zack has a test tomorrow so he went to bed a hour ago, which means I have a few hours to myself! It's so quiet around here when everyone is in bed. It's a good break, this allows me to do whatever I want. Crazy thing is, I choose facebook over anything else.

I am trying to go through my friends and delete people I either don't remember who they are, or have only met maybe once in my life and will probably never see again. I'm only to the "H" in my list. I'm also trying to delete the military pages I joined because of random drama. I thought I was leaving the drama behind when I graduated high school, but I suppose as long as there are girls in the world there will be drama.

Some of the pages are really supportive, but it only takes a few girls to make it go downhill. I am trying to figure out which ones I want to stay apart of and that are actually helpful, which a lot are. Then delete the ones I could do without. I have too many friends on facebook. Since Zack joined the Navy I've added so many military wives, that I can't remember who is who, so it is time for some to go. If I've never talked to them then I probably don't need to be friends with them on facebook.

Thankfully I haven't ran into any real life drama yet. All the women I have met are mature adults. Close enough to adults anyway. I'm hoping it stays that way and I never have to get dragged into the middle of gossip and back stabbing. I suppose if I choose my friends carefully and try not to be a drama queen myself I probably can do a pretty good job of avoiding it.

I'm trying to think what else I've been up to lately. Random thoughts are flooding my head right now and I'm trying not to jump all over the place. I just finished the 4th season of Army Wives. I don't know if I can take anymore, it's so sad! Although it makes me really happy for the time I get to spend with my husband. One thing I noticed on Army Wives is that they always, always just walk over to each others houses and a lot of the time let themselves in their friends house, or just come over without calling first. I was wondering how often that really happens.

I walk over to peoples houses, but only if I call first. There are very few times anyone actually drops in. Maybe I don't have that close of friends, but it seemed kind of weird to me. I was wondering how realistic it actually is. Just one of my deep thoughts.

Watching Army Wives has however made me so glad my husband is in the Navy. I don't know how the Army wives do it. I know I'll face a 6months to year deployment at some point in the next few years, and sometimes I wonder if he will come home because I know anything can go wrong, but Army wives, and anyone else who's husband is actually fighting, that would be the most terrifying thing in the world. I know my husband will be pretty safe being on a ship, or sub and I'm so grateful he decided to join the Navy instead of any of the other branches.

These are my thoughts for tonight. I will continue to purge my friends on facebook, and I will be thankful that my husband is sleeping under the same roof as I am tonight! <3